In today’s society I see a lot of people trying to make themselves laugh at the next persons pain. Or looking down on the next person because they don’t have what they have. I see so much going on and it’s like do I belong here? I’m not perfect and I have my faults but somethings are just like okay… but what I noticed is when someone is trying to talk down on someone else or laughing at someone else it’s because they really aren’t happy with themselves.
I know a person and I’m not going to call any names but she’s one of the most messiest persons I have met. She talks about everyone but you rarely hear her talk about her own problems 🤔. Maybe she talks about others problems to run away from her own? Or maybe she laughs to keep from crying because she’s really not happy.
One thing I don’t like is when I walk away from a person and I feel like as soon as I walk away they’re talking about me , to me that spells bad vibes, toxicity, and not for me. If I feel like I’m being talked about as soon as I walk away from a conversation then I don’t need to hang around those people and that is bad! If you talk about people that much, I know I’m not exempt.
But what do you do when you’re in an environment like that? You stay to yourself , you keep your mouth closed, you peep things and act accordingly.
I’ve always been a quiet person. Not always but life made me pay attention more to things. Although I don’t say much I peep a lot. Don’t ever think I’m dumb. I pay attention to vibes. I can tell when a person has animosity towards me, I can feel the cold distance in the air. I’m not perfect but I do pay attention to things.
All I’m saying is- if a person talks about other people all day and have nothing but bad things to say then that’s toxic. It’s unhealthy, they are dealing toxic and unhealthy things at home. They’re not happy and they are miserable. And who in their right mind wants to be around miserable people all day? Toxic people all day? I said what I said and I feel how I feel.
I play stupid but don’t ever think I’m the fool. I know who says things about me , I can tell by their energy! And a person can pretend all they want but trust me I peep. I peep all of it but play cordial. When a person is that toxic, they’re either jealous, bitter, insecure within themselves, or just plain unhappy. And it’s not your fault, it’s not your hurt they are portraying , it’s their own and sometimes you have to ignore it.. because they are battling some tough things. Don’t ask me why God showed me something but God showed me something and it makes perfect sense why certain people are the way they are. They’re just unhappy with themselves.
So if someone is talking down on you, trying to make you look bad, projecting their anger and hatefulness on you, understand it’s them and not you. They are going through their own thing and sometimes you just have to pray for them, wash your hands, and wish them the best. No hard feelings but I can’t deal with you and it’s that simple. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Peace, love, light 😘😘😘😘
Relearning. 