Making moves ~

There’s a life that is more powerful than you can imagine. There are so many doors waiting to be open for you. Are you ready for your new? New opportunities, new doors are being opened for you. New money. New mindset. New dreams. New visions. New location. New hope. A renewed heart. It’s all coming for you. It’s all on the way for you! There’s nothing you can’t have in this lifetime and everything you want and desire is on its way to you now. GET READY!!!! It’s coming faster than you think!!!! Everything is gonna work out! That new weight you want. Those new partnerships, that new mindset, that new house/apartment!!! That new confidence!! It’s coming!!! It’s on its way!!!! It’s coming so rapidly that you’re not gonna believe it’s possible to even phantom.

Stay encouraged ‼️ it’s coming. Stay positive in your mindset and believe you deserve the absolute best and greater in this lifetime. Keep your head up!!! Its all working out for you now.💕💕💕💕

The comeback kid.

Things happen in life that don’t always makes sense. You lose your job, lose a family member or a friend, you come out of bad relationships, car problems happen. Now you’re stuck trying to figure out what to do next. You create so many goals for yourself so you can elevate and so you can grow and once the devil knows that, he’s gonna try and attack all you have. As if you haven’t dealt with enough. Things happen tho. How to comeback is the question. How do you re-gather yourself and continue to fight for what you want?

It’s a lot to deal with but I believe it’s gonna be a light at the end of the tunnel. Wanna know why? Cause we are comeback children and we have God. God don’t let us deal with more than we can handle. God will use the very thing you thought was gonna take you out, to elevate you! If I don’t have anything else during this time, I have my faith and I believe my faith will take me where I need to go. It’s all I have. When everyone and everything else disappoints me, uses me , drains me , hurts me… I have my faith. I need to have something to believe in, if not I feel like I’ll fall for anything. Even though it’s hard, I don’t believe it’s over just yet. I believe there is so much more greatness in life that I have to see. I haven’t fully seen all that God has for me and you haven’t either. You will comeback from all setbacks, all naysayers , you will make it because it was written and because you have so much more calling your name.

Everything will work out. Everything will make sense again. It’s not over yet! It’s only over when you give up! Keep going, keep believing, know that the sun will shine again. You will comeback no matter what !!!

How to cope with loses:

-show gratitude for what you do have.

-take it as a better door or opportunity being open for you.

-understand the L’s create a new strength in you that will also create a stronger mind, create a stronger heart.

Everything happens for a reason just have to keep it pushing and elevating !! Create goals-tackle them! Surround yourself around the people who want to see you elevate and win!!! Let go of what no longer serves you, so you have nothing hindering you from your greater. Everyone has taken a lose every now and then. Bounce back, heal from it, don’t dwell on it or you’ll just let it consume you to the core. Stay patient and trust the process. It’s gonna work out!! Everything will be okay. You will win !!!

Stay up! Stay strong! Keep your head up and don’t give up 💕💕 YOUR TIME IS COMING ❤️❤️❤️❤️

My heart won’t allow it. (Good READ!)

Have you ever had someone who loved you so much but you were afraid? You were afraid of falling because you don’t want to hurt them or worse you don’t want them to hurt you? Or are you afraid of taking the chance because in all actuality it’s not what you want? You don’t want to go way down the line and boom it fails. Boom you have to start over.. boom you have to feel that pain again. You ask yourself is it really worth it. You ask is it worth taking the chance. You don’t see the bigger picture.

My biggest issue.

My biggest issue is dealing with a guy and he doesn’t have a plan, doesn’t have goals, doesn’t have a sense of direction, or leadership skills… no I’m not a gold digger and I don’t look to guys for what they have, I look to a guy because I see something in him, however if he is playing around with his life, doesn’t know how to lead properly, doesn’t have a sense of direction, then I’m not gonna be so eager following him. I’m gonna have questions and I’m gonna be a little fearful of his steps. Two lost people can’t help each other, in my opinion. How are we both lost and looking for each other for direction? I don’t mind supporting my guy, being there for him, nurturing him, etc… but he has to give me reason to submit, he has to have that quality of leadership. If you can’t lead yourself, how are you gonna lead me?

That’s so shallow: some people will say my thinking is shallow but honestly I’m not in the business of caring these days. How can one expect me to be so eager to just follow him and he’s still doing things that a child would do? How does one expect me to have children with them and they’re not showing me that they’re worthy or even well responsible to take care of himself? Excuse me if I may sound a little arrogant or too blunt or judge-mental… but a women naturally submits to a man whom she trust to lead. Most of these guys don’t have anything going for themselves and want to leach off the women and vice versa. Thank God I’m no materialistic type of chick, however can you blame the women who refuses to date a man without sufficient funds? Can you blame her for not taking a guy serious if he doesn’t have anything going? Can you blame a women for not wanting to commit to a man who has been dogging her out for years? I can’t because if he can’t provide for himself, how is he gonna provide for his family?

These are things I look at: I look at these things because they are important, no women wants to be with a man she has to raise and no man wants to be with a women he has to raise. Yes support them, however at some point in life that man is gonna have to step up and take care of business. I saw this post circulating around saying- if a man doesn’t change his ways for you then you’re not the women for him… who all agrees? If you tell a man that something is bothering you and he sees that it’s hurting you and you do everything in your power to try and help him and he still doesn’t change, I won’t say you’re not the one— however you may not be. If a man doesn’t feel afraid to lose you and doesn’t correct his behavior to have you, then sweetie my love… you’re not the one.

All I’m saying is… I cannot just follow behind someone who doesn’t have direction, who doesn’t have goals, and who is not serious about life- have fun, yeah! But if you’re not serious about your goals and tryna progress I cannot and I refuse to be with you. It’s too much, however if someone really wanted to be with you they will do everything in their power to make sure you guys are good and you guys are stable and that you’re content with everything you guys got going on.

Conclusion- I will ride with my man regardless of what he has, however if he isn’t making the necessary steps to keep himself up, showing respect, taking responsibility for his actions, making the necessary steps to change and grow, and have decent manners, and wants something out of life, while tackling his goals- I can’t take him serious. A women naturally submits to a man in which she trust to lead.

My belief and at its core is- THE MAN SHOULD BE THE PROVIDER! He has to provide, he has to take care of the bills and the home problems such as plumbing, car issues, etc – don’t get me wrong a women can help go 50/50 if she wants, however that’s the mans job, he should be the sole provider.. a man doesn’t feel like a man if he can’t provide- right or right? All I’m saying is provide, protect, lead! The rest will follow naturally especially from the women— she will be happy to cook, happy to clean, happy to have sex, if she knows she’s appreciated and she has a man that’s willing and ready to lead, learn, and grow! Guys get mad at you because you don’t want to ride with them while they don’t have anything and when they get everything, they go to the women who only wants him for his money and spoils her and dog the chick who has been there, so if a women doesn’t wanna stay down then so what… a women is not obligated to stay down until you come up- she can! But she’s not obligated. That’s just my take on it. Hate it or love it-

Hope you guys enjoyed this read, like and comment and Join me next time if you can.

PEACE, LIGHT, AND LOVE. ✌🏽

What are friends?

Who do you consider your friends? Who do you call on when you have no one to call? How do you break the attachments that you know are hindering you from growth? Why are we so afraid to move on and take a chance? These questions are questions that are good to meditate on for it’ll give you closure on where you are on your path. Sometimes it’s okay to cut people off and block and unfriend people so that it can help you grow and focus on the life you want to create. Some people stay somewhere where they know they don’t belong because they feel like they can’t do it without them. They feel as if their worth is validated by another human being and sometimes that may be the case, but ask yourself is it really healthy…

When you come up with the answer, let me know. Sometimes we have to look into our lives and really see what needs to change , really look within and find out what’s really important to us at that moment.. if we look within and we can’t see what’s important to us and where we actually want to go how will you find your way?

Some people think you must put up with anything to prove you love someone but I don’t think so.. if you’re not encouraging someone to change and that person is not changing then it’s only so much you can take until you reach your breaking point.

A person is not dumb; trust me I’ve been that friend that has encouraged, gave my last, had sympathy, I let my guard down and trusted the wrong people, but those people show me why it’s important to let go and let God. I sometimes beat myself up for the things I’ve done and if you sit down and think back on all the things you’ve done and a lot of it was bad, ask yourself what was done to you that made you that way. Ask yourself what did others do to me to make me react this way; don’t beat yourself up over it… find the strength to let it go and change what you need to change.

Stay encouraged; don’t give up; keep the faith; everyone’s not meant to stay in your life and for good reason. Find your way, don’t forget your worth, and keep it pushing!!! You’ll find your way.

You’ve made it this far… why give up now?

When the answer is NO.

Sometimes we are told NO from teachers, from jobs, from parents, from God.. etc when we really want something and we get discouraged when it doesn’t go our way, however just because you were rejected from something doesn’t mean your not worthy of it, sometimes it’s just Gods way of redirecting us to something better. If you were told no by an instructor that you couldn’t get anymore time on your assignment because you’ve been having a lot going on, then try to look at the situation differently and find a different solution so that you can get your papers in on time, or if you were rejected from a job try to look at it as if there is something better coming along. Now sometimes it can get hard to look at life in a positive sense when you feel like everything is going wrong but that’s where faith comes in. Even though you don’t see a way doesn’t mean a way isn’t being made maybe God is preparing you for more than you can phantom and he wants to see if you have what it takes to go after it or if you have the faith to believe that you can achieve it. No matter what the case may be, you can’t give up. You can’t be a quitter although sometimes you want to quit because it’s so hard or the job is draining, you have to keep going because how else are you gonna eat? Now don’t get me wrong don’t just tolerate anything just to say you have a job, a job should be an environment where the main goal is to make sure the job gets done in safe, productive, respectful and positive manner. If you are working around people and their energy drains you all day or the only thing they have to say is something negative, you should be able to healthily express that with no altercations and if they really care about their employees they would make it fit that everyone is comfortable doing their job, if nothing changes distance yourself or talk about something of importance, whatever the case may be try to find a solution to the problem and keep it moving… if nothing changes, find a different job.

Feeling like giving up…?

If you are feeling like giving up because something isn’t going your way or your not where you want to be in life right now, take a second look around and see all of the things that you do have right now. Look at all the opportunities surrounding you now and be thankful for it. Although it may seem like a way will never be made, keep trying, keep focusing, let go of things that no longer serve you( easier said then done) but still try anyway. When things seem like they are going left or just seem all bad think of ways you can provide, think of ways that can enhance you and your surroundings, try to find the beauty in things, don’t get discouraged although it’s so easy to do so, don’t give up, keep finding that reason to fight and believe that a way is being made. Believe that there will be an opportunity presented before you, even if it’s not what you wanted, be thankful that it’s probably 10x better then what you asked for. Keep going, keep shining and keep running your race, don’t give up just yet… fight a little longer and be inspired and encouraged to not give up.

Peace, love, happiness 😘😘😘😘❤️

A little positivity your way ❤️

I’ve learned to embrace the change, live in the now, let go, move on gracefully, no hate.. all love. Sometimes when we go through things we focus on all the bad things going on.. why doesn’t she/he love me anymore, why didn’t they hire me, or how come I don’t have a car right now? We tend to look at all the bad but forget all of the good going on, I’m alive, I’m healthy, I’m in my right mind, I have a roof over my head. When we look at things in a brighter sense, we invite more gifts into our lives. When we focus on what we have rather than what we’ve lost we move forward with more open doors. Sometimes people can make you feel guilty for doing for yourself they can make you feel tired and drained but when you move forward with a positive outlook you bring more positivity to yourself and more options. When I was younger I was very insecure, very guilible, a very attention seeker young lady, but as I grow older and become more mature, I realize my worth, I take care of my well being, I don’t stay hushed for no one, I’m more aware of a lot of things and so I say that to say this, it doesn’t matter where you are right now it’s about where you are headed. Things may feel hard but there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. If I can touch one person with my kind and encouraging words then I know I did my part. Don’t give up, your story doesn’t end here. Much love and peace to you 💛

👑Jayme 💛